The
Drying of the Frats
by JASON SPINGARN-KOFF
CARLOS ALMENDAREZ PROMISED HIS MOTHER HE WOULDN'T DRINK in college. "My
uncle fell off a freeway overpass when he was drunk and died," says the
UC Berkeley freshman, his slender frame sinking into an oversized couch. "I
never plan to drink."
A mounted deer head looms above
him on an adjacent wall. Across the room are shelves of antique leather-bound
books, dating to the fraternity house's founding in 1892. In the corner, a football
game plays on an impressively large television.
This semester he visited several
fraternity houses before he decided to join Sigma Nu. "Most houses I went
to would tell you there's no hazing, but there was," he says. "And
they smelled like beer and trash. I got a great vibe here - I didn't meet the
stereotypical frat guy." He says the fact that Sigma Nu went dry voluntarily
in 1997 is just one reason he decided to join.
"If you take alcohol away
from fraternity houses," he says, "you start focusing on the meaning
of fraternities - which is brotherhood, not social life."
"One of the
main motivations for joining a fraternity is to hang out with girls
and drink with them," says a Sigma Alpha Epsilon brother. "If
girls can't come drink with you, there won't be any parties."
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Almendarez may represent the
frat boy of the new millennium. A national anti-alcohol movement, which is spreading
across the nation, is set to overtake Berkeley's fraternities. At Sigma Nu,
for example, brothers are still allowed to drink at parties outside the house.
Inside, however, alcohol can never be served or consumed.
In 1997 the national organizations
of several newly dry fraternities asked sororities to support the dry movement.
In response, the National Panhellenic Conference (NPC), the umbrella organization
for the nation's 26 sororities, unanimously passed an initiative banning sororities
from co-sponsoring parties at fraternities where alcohol is served. The ban
will become effective in the fall semester of 2000. Two sororities with chapters
at Berkeley, Pi Beta Phi and Kappa Kappa Gamma, decided to take the resolution
a step further; they voted to no longer co-sponsor any type of party with a
fraternity that isn't dry.
The resolution is not a legal
mandate, but a recommendation to support the dry movement, says Lindsey Mercer,
the Panhellenic President of Berkeley's 12 sororities. Mercer, 22, is also a
member of Pi Beta Phi, a sorority that adopted the stricter policy. "This
will reduce liability and return fraternities to the values they were founded
on," she says.
The resolution is called NPC 2000, though some refer to it as Dry2K. While Mercer
says NPC 2000 was drafted to support Berkeley's two dry fraternities, Mercer
acknowledged it will also be felt by the 30 fraternities at Berkeley that still
allow alcohol in their houses. "It's kind of forcing other fraternities
to follow suit," she says.
But many fraternity leaders
do not want to follow in Sigma Nu's footsteps. "This could change the way
fraternities have been doing things for a hundred years," says Trevor Astbury,
the student head of the Inter-Fraternity Council, the governing body for Berkeley's
32 fraternities. "Parties as we know them center around a DJ or band and
alcohol," he says. "I don't think you can have a huge party without
alcohol." He adds with a laugh, "A fraternity party can't really go
on without sororities attending."
The resolution, when
implemented next fall, will allow fraternities to invite women or alcohol
into their houses, but not both - at least in any official capacity.
While the NPC assumed men would choose women over booze, fraternity
members say they face a serious dilemma.
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The resolution, when implemented next fall, will
allow fraternities to invite women or alcohol into their houses, but not both
- at least in any official capacity. While the NPC assumed men would choose
women over booze, fraternity members say they face a serious dilemma.
"One of the main motivations
for joining a fraternity is to hang out with girls and drink with them,"
says a Sigma Alpha Epsilon brother who asked to remain anonymous. "If girls
can't come drink with you, there won't be any parties."
Greek leaders are quick to point out, however, that fraternities will still
be able to throw any type of party they wish outside of their houses. Even Sigma
Nu, the dry fraternity, will be able to invite a sorority to a bar in San Francisco.
While alcohol plays a key role
in fraternity culture, it has been blamed for many of the Greek system's recent
woes. In the last two years, two Berkeley fraternities have been shut down for
alcohol-related hazing of new members. In the early 1990's, three fraternity
brothers died in alcohol-related incidents at their houses.
Alcohol is also blamed for sexual
assaults of sorority women, says Mercer. "I've personally had friends who've
been sexually assaulted, by both Greek and non-Greek men," she says. The
numbers are hard to know, she says, because victims often do not report the
incidents. "Any time you have a student body of 35,000 and a Greek community
of 2,000 students," she says, "these things are going to happen. Especially
under the influence of alcohol."
Sorority women realize they
have a role in the discussion concerning drinking and parties. "You can't
talk about the issue of alcohol and how it plays a role in fraternity life without
talking about the sorority women," says Tina Barnett, a UC Berkeley student
services employee who oversees the sororities. "It certainly isn't just
the men's problem," she says.
But while the NPC is united
in its support of dry fraternities, it is unable to draft specific rules for
the national sororities to follow. "Since there are 26 different women's
organizations in the NPC," Barnett says, "you've got 26 different
versions of how they're going to support the initiative." Some sororities
say they will not sponsor an event unless it is substance free. Others will
not be sponsors unless the actual fraternity is substance free. In either case,
there is a potentially vast loophole: how will sororities define "sponsorship"
itself? And how will the regulations be enforced?
Mercer says Berkeley sororities
and fraternities will meet next semester to decide exactly how the initiative
will be implemented. "We want to have group consensus," she says,
especially over the controversial issue of sponsorship.
The Kappa Kappa Gamma sorority, like Mercer's Pi Beta Phi house, decided to
only sponsor parties with dry fraternities. Its national organization defines
sponsorship by how many sorority members attend a fraternity function, says
Errin Eddy, Berkeley's Kappa Kappa Gamma president . If five women visit a fraternity
function that serves alcohol, they will be in violation, says Eddy. Other sororities
have set the number higher, says Mercer, prompting fears that sororities will
be treated differently under the resolution. "We'll try to work together
to keep everyone at the same level," she says.
Trevor Astbury, the Inter-Fraternity
President, says fraternities must work with sororities to implement the resolution.
"The only way it will really be implemented is if we as a Greek system
decide to implement it and put it into our Greek Code of Conduct," he says.
The Code of Conduct includes a set of rules the fraternities and sororities
must follow when having parties. "Then our judicial committee and risk
management committees can start to monitor it."
Many fraternity and sorority
members say they don't want to implement the resolution. Some women say the
resolution has been forced upon them and will dampen their social life. "It's
almost as if we're being punished for something [the men] asked us to do,"
says Maggie Koshland, 19, a sophomore at the Kappa Kappa Gamma sorority. "I
don't understand why restrictions are being put on us when very few of them
have set dates to have their houses go dry."
The social chair of the Chai
Omega sorority has similar concerns. "Making sure that underage people
don't drink is important," says Meredeth Mandell, a sophomore. "But
making them go dry is a Draconian approach to the drinking scene."
Even Astbury, whose job as a fraternity leader requires him to help implement
the measure, is deeply ambivalent. "Personally, I think it's not necessarily
something we need to do at Cal," he says. He is skeptical of a policy which
supports the two dry fraternities on campus but would restrict the quality of
life for 30 other fraternities. "I personally don't like the idea that
some people decided they were going to make a policy that changes how our lives
go," he says.
On a Wednesday night a few blocks
away from Sigma Nu, a handful of young men play pool and drink beer in the Pi
Alpha Phi fraternity. Behind the pool table is a fully stocked bar. Chris Rakunas,
20, is one of the oldest brothers in the room. "I pay $600 a month for
my room," he says. "I have a right to open a beer if I want."
Technically, he doesn't. State
law mandates that only those over 21 can drink alcohol. Still, Rakunas says,
that doesn't seem to stop fraternity brothers of all ages from drinking whenever
they want.
Rakunas says fraternity members
at Berkeley can now get "plastered" six nights a week. On Monday you
can get drunk during the house meeting. On Tuesday you can get drunk at an "exchange"
with a sorority - where a sorority will visit a fraternity or vice versa. On
Wednesday you can go to an "underground bar" at one of several fraternities,
where drinks are sold illegally. On Thursday there are "date parties"
in San Francisco, where a house will rent a bus to take brothers and their dates
to a bar or club - only those over 21 are supposed to drink, so be sure to bring
your fake ID. On Friday and Saturday, you can party off campus or drink in the
house.
While Rakunas supports the right
of brothers to drink in their own houses, he says he would like to see the Dry2K
resolution implemented. In terms of throwing parties, he says, the resolution
"will totally level the playing field." He says his house doesn't
have enough money to throw exchanges on a par with the larger, more established
fraternities. He says banning parties with alcohol would give his house a chance
to distinguish itself with its creativity, not just its liquor budget.
A month ago his house threw
a successful ice cream party for a sorority. "We bought 10 gallons of ice
cream, got forty girls over for 22 guys," he says with a smile. He says
his fraternity could throw themed non-alcoholic dance parties with DJs and elaborate
decorations. In the 1950s and 60s, he says, his brothers used to build a small
lake outside their fraternity house, complete with a boat that rowed dates to
a tropical-themed party.
Sitting in a quaint living room
decorated for Christmas, several sorority women at Kappa Kappa Gamma said they
are not enthusiastic about the NPC 2000 mandates. Sophomore Koshland says parties
with alcohol will not be replaced by dry events. "They'll just be moved
to bars," she says.
"Or basements," adds
Jessica Wood, 19. Wood worries about the implications of making fraternities
and sororities dry. "There will be more drunk driving, more underground
drinking -- and people might be less likely to call the hospital or police if
they drank too much, for fear of getting in trouble."
Back at Sigma Nu, Carlos Almendarez
concedes that not everyone is enthusiastic about the Dry2K movement. Yet he
is glad the resolution is going forward, and thinks it will give people like
himself more options in which fraternity to rush, cleaner houses, and more options
for dry parties. Most importantly, he says, it will help return fraternities
to their core values.
But he also understands human
nature. "I look back to prohibition," he says, "and no matter
how much the school wants to push something, if people are against it, then
it's kind of futile."