How to Keep Your Cool At School

By Peter Nicks
Contributing Writer

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"The most drastic conflict we had was with a young man," said Breazeale.

"I'm not going to mention his name because it's supposed to be confidential. He had a fight with one of the boys on the corner down there and the boy was talking about wanting to shoot him."

Breazeale and other student mediators worked on the case. It involved sitting both sides down and discussing the incident.

"I think I handled it quite well," Breazeale said. "It was hard work. We were here early that morning until almost five o'clock."

Generally, there are enough conflicts at McClymonds to keep the student mediators busy. Olufemi monitors disturbances and assigns cases to various students. The students are then responsible for meeting with those involved and using their training to prevent further violence.

In addition to her role at McClymonds, Olufemi is responsible for coordinating several other programs, including a mentoring program at local elementary schools, a youth advocacy program and a parent's awareness group.

But the bulk of her time is spent with the McClymonds students -- and the students respect her for it.

"Haneefa (Olufemi) is doing a great job. I told her that she couldn't leave until I graduated," said Delanor Ford, 15, a sophomore in her first year as a mediator. "She will tell us, 'I am not you, I'm not a teenager. But, I feel you.' She's real. She can reach everybody, feel everybody."

What Olufemi calls her own "therapy" has had a residual effect on the school. The dice games and smell of marijuana are gone, according to students.

"I love them dearly," said Olufemi of her students. "I see very strong young people who, with the right guidance, with the right resources and with the right exposures can have a very positive impact on the future and also complete their goals."

Even though the program is a success, it is struggling for funding and for support. When Olufemi was first trained, nine Oakland schools participated in the program. Today, there are only three schools in the program.

The West Oakland Violence Prevention program is financed with a $175,000 grant from the Wellness Foundation. Although the foundation has guaranteed funding for the next three years, Olufemi hopes that the Oakland School system will give it the support to continue after that period.

In order to get that support, she believes the program must continue showing that it is relevant in the lives of students.

"We need to get out there, show that we're really doing something," said Olufemi. "We need to show that it is making a positive impact."

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Violence Prevention Resources

Pacific Center for Violence Prevention
An organization that tries to prevent violence in California.

Essays on Preventing Violence in Urban Schools